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Perry MattfeldandMark Sanchezare married!
TheShamelessactress, 29, and former NFL player, 36, exchanged vows inside a historic 16th-century colonial monastery on May 28 in Oaxaca, Mexico.
“It was really emotional and special for us,” Mattfeld exclusively tells PEOPLE of the affair.
“The bodice featured intricate beading from Paris, and was fitted to me like a glove,” theIn the Darkactress says. “It was the only wedding dress I ever tried on, and it was perfect. I didn’t want to take attention away from the dress, so I kept my jewelry simple. I accompanied the dress with diamond drop earrings that Mark gave me for our first Christmas as boyfriend and girlfriend.”
As the bride and groom exchange handwritten vows, Sanchez’s son Daniel, who was a groomsman and ring bearer, stood beside the couple.
“He got a standing ovation as he brought our rings down the aisle, and then took his place next to Mark during the ceremony,” says Mattfeld. “It was so special to be able to read our vows with him beside us.”
Adds Sanchez: “Emotional is a massive understatement. It all hit me at once like a mack truck and after that, I couldn’t turn off the tears! Tears of joy, love and gratitude for getting such an incredible life partner.”
“We are both of Mexican descent and we loved the idea of celebrating there,” says Mattfeld of their destination wedding. “We visited Oaxaca a few years ago and fell in love, so we knew it was the perfect location for us. We also liked the idea of giving our friends and family a reason to visit Oaxaca!”
Says Mattfeld: “I wanted the flowers to feel organic and lively to fit our garden venue with various stem lengths and uniquely shaped petals. Since we had such colorful florals, I opted to keep my table settings and other decor more simple and modern. Each table setting featured a monogramed jicara, which is a traditional cup for drinking Mezcal, made from the gourd of the native Crescentia tree.”
The couple also incorporated butterflies throughout the celebration. “They represent a special connection to those who are no longer with us,” Mattfeld explains. “We incorporated them into a lot of our wedding elements like our invitations, on my veil, our wedding bands and more. Hosting our event at a butterfly sanctuary really brought this special touch full circle.”
“The venue has a beautiful outdoor courtyard and kitchen and is rustic yet minimal — a very sexy vibe,” Mattfeld says. “It was an incredible night where we all ate delicious food, drank, danced to live music and kicked off the festivities.”
“Many people told us that the Criollo party could’ve been the wedding!” adds the actress.
The second day was a nod to Sanchez, who has a Mezcal company calledCampante. The couple brought their guests to an agave farm for Mezcal tasting and a distillery tour. As the sun went down, it was time for the rehearsal dinner with the couple’s closest friends and family atHotel Azul de Oaxaca— a site not only for lodging guests but that also doubles as an art gallery.
“Our union is a celebration of our special bond in front of friends and family, and a promise to each other and those closest to us to be strong and supportive towards each other in our future challenges, successes and failures,” says Sanchez.
“The fabrics were beautiful french lace and point d’Espirit tulle,” she says.
“The halter open back is my favorite part. I paired it with Loeffler Randall shoes, until I went barefoot to dance the rest of the night!”
When it came to dinner, the couple made sure the cuisine at their wedding was top-tier.
“Mark and I love food. Period! It’s our favorite thing, and favorite thing to do together,” she says. “The cuisine in this magical place played a critical role in selecting Oaxaca as our wedding destination.”
Oaxaca is home to seven different types of mole, and the couple made sure to incorporate as many as possible. Dinner was traditional Oaxacan cuisine, and incorporated popular American favorites. Pork ribs in green mole, short rib in mole negro, sweet potato wrapped shrimp in brown mole plus handmade tortillas.
“How could you leave out churros?” Matffeld jokes.
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Reflecting on her wedding, Mattfeld says it was “better than I ever imagined.”
Adds Sanchez: “It’s an outward expression of our inner belief in each other.”
With the wedding behind them, the newlyweds are off for their honeymoon in East Africa, making stops in Kenya, Tanzania, Zanzibar and the Seychelles.
“We love to travel to new places together,” says Mattfeld. “It’s always an adventure. We are so lucky because our careers have taken us to many cities across the world, but we both have never been on a trip like this.”
source: people.com
